[llvm] [LLVM] Add `LLVM_<proj>_RUNTIME_TARGETS` to set targets per-project (PR #81557)

[Petr Hosek via llvm-commits]

petrhosek wrote:

> So, I think my main problem with the other support is that it forces explicitly adding `default` to the list of enabled. As far as I'm aware, the vast majority of users want the default target when building. Maybe we could just have an alternate way to se them that implies `default` so users don't need to change as much if they want to copy paste something.

I'm already working on a change for that since this is something I wanted to address for a while, I should have a PR ready later today.

https://github.com/llvm/llvm-project/pull/81557