[llvm] Reapply "[ORC] Replace ORC's baked-in dependence ... (#163027)" with … (PR #164340)

[Lang Hames via llvm-commits]

lhames wrote:

> We're seeing test failures when tsan is enabled. Attached is a scrubbed backtrace with the relevant information: [test.log](https://github.com/user-attachments/files/23135118/test.log). Can you please take a look?

Hi @googlewalt. I'm traveling at the moment and not in a position to reproduce, but I suspect this is caused by the assert at the top of `AsynchronousSymbolQuery::handleComplete`. Any chance you could try the following:

```c++

https://github.com/llvm/llvm-project/pull/164340