[llvm] Reapply "[ORC] Replace ORC's baked-in dependence ... (#163027)" with … (PR #164340)

[Walter Lee via llvm-commits]

googlewalt wrote:

We're seeing a test failure is enabled.  Attached is a scrubbed backtrace with the relevant information: [test.log](https://github.com/user-attachments/files/23135118/test.log).  Can you please take a look?


https://github.com/llvm/llvm-project/pull/164340