[clang] [clang] Normalize clang-cl options for host and device compilation (PR #228096)

[Joseph Huber via cfe-commits]

https://github.com/jhuber6 approved this pull request.

Seems reasonable to me, would be nice if someone more familiar with the MSVC toolchain could chime in

https://github.com/llvm/llvm-project/pull/228096