[clang] [LifetimeSafety] Use per-container invalidation rules to fix false positives (PR #183000)

[Gábor Horváth via cfe-commits]

https://github.com/Xazax-hun approved this pull request.

Let's remove some of the `cppreference` links as it is not the single source of truth when it comes to C++, we usually try to reference the standard directly when we need references. Otherwise, it looks good to me. 

https://github.com/llvm/llvm-project/pull/183000