[clang] [LifetimeSafety] Use per-container invalidation rules to fix false positives (PR #183000)

[Utkarsh Saxena via cfe-commits]

https://github.com/usx95 approved this pull request.

The structure looks great to me. LGTM. (some ideas for tests inline)

Let's wait for approval from @Xazax-hun 

https://github.com/llvm/llvm-project/pull/183000