[clang-tools-extra] [clang-tidy] Add check bugprone-misleading-setter-of-reference (PR #132242)

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NagyDonat wrote:

Also @vbvictor thanks for your helpful remarks. As far as I see they were all addressed by @balazske -- do you have anything to add?

https://github.com/llvm/llvm-project/pull/132242