[clang] [clang] Add builtin_get_vtable_pointer and virtual_member_address (PR #135469)

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cor3ntin wrote:

> I just noticed there's no documentation for `__builtin_virtual_member_address()` so I'm addressing that.
> 
> Due to code drift and time I realized that they disagree as to whether they should take `C*` or `C&` so I'm going to make them both accept either (existing code means we can't unify on one or the other, but also there's no real reason to not accept either and simply do the correct thing)

most of our builtins take pointers. Accepting both seems unwise.
people might want to do interesting things in sfinae context and if we accept everything and anything it will end up causing more pain than it alleviates.

https://github.com/llvm/llvm-project/pull/135469