[clang] Reduce memory usage in AST parent map generation by lazily checking if nodes have been seen (PR #129934)

[Erich Keane via cfe-commits]

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@@ -70,16 +93,37 @@ class ParentMapContext::ParentMap {
         push_back(Value);
     }
     bool contains(const DynTypedNode &Value) {
-      return Seen.contains(Value);
+      assert(Value.getMemoizationData());
+      bool found = FragileLazySeenCache.contains(&Value);
+      while (!found && ItemsProcessed < Items.size()) {
+        found |= FragileLazySeenCache.insert(&Items[ItemsProcessed]).second;
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erichkeane wrote:

```suggestion
        found = FragileLazySeenCache.insert(&Items[ItemsProcessed]).second;
```

https://github.com/llvm/llvm-project/pull/129934