[clang] [clang-cl][flang][dxc] Fix opts exposed to clang-cl/dxc by mistake (PR #118640)

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Maetveis wrote:

@HaohaiWen can you check if this makes sense for clang-cl? @bob80905 same for DXC please.

https://github.com/llvm/llvm-project/pull/118640