[clang] [llvm] [SpecialCaseList] Use glob by default (PR #74809)

[Arthur Eubanks via cfe-commits]

aeubanks wrote:

This caused some ignorelist changes, e.g.

`src:*third_party/vulkan_memory_allocator/include/vk_mem_alloc.h`

didn't work anymore and the opt-out made it work again. Still investigating why.

https://github.com/llvm/llvm-project/pull/74809