[clang] [flang][driver] Don't use -whole-archive on Darwin (PR #75393)

[Leandro Lupori via cfe-commits]

luporl wrote:

Some sources (https://stackoverflow.com/questions/16082470/osx-how-do-i-convert-a-static-library-to-a-dynamic-one) suggest the use of `-force_load`:

```
     -force_load path_to_archive
             Loads all members of the specified static archive library.  Note: -all_load forces all members of all archives to be
             loaded.  This option allows you to target a specific archive.
```

https://github.com/llvm/llvm-project/pull/75393