[llvm] Update [Github] Update GHA Dependencies (major) (PR #161108)

[Aiden Grossman via llvm-commits]

https://github.com/boomanaiden154 commented:

Probably want to avoid windows/mac updates given we're often explicitly using old versions and those updates usually manually need intervention anyways. Some of these changes should also probably be pieced out, but the vast majority are probably good.

https://github.com/llvm/llvm-project/pull/161108